Each of these ladybird tiles are laid on ground on which senseless violence such as deadly crimes have taken place. It’s a ground-up initiative on peace. I saw this one in Amsterdam. The invisible past can get lost in the busy-ness of the days. So I appreciate this initiative to...
Author: Vadivu
Columbia Alumni Leadership Weekend 2019
This was a memorable session for me as I had the opportunity to share about the heart-centred events I had organised for the Columbia Alumni Club in Singapore with leaders of other Columbia alumni clubs across Asia. It was also memorable because of the powerful participant storytelling and images that...
Speech: National Day at Alma Mater
In 2017, I was Guest-of-Honour at the National Day celebrations of my alma mater, Raffles Girls' School. This was my speech to the 13 to 16 year olds. I didn’t know about my heart, love, service or joy when I was their age. So it was special for me to...
“Spiritual Wounds”
In my early days as a workshop facilitator, I used to run workshops for youth at times. I walked into a class in a school (which was known to have academically challenged students) once and there was mayhem. One student made a lewd gesture at me. Others had turned their...
The Technician
I once had a technician attend an in-house staff onboarding programme I ran for an organisation. During tea-break, he hovered around me, struggling to say something. Suddenly he said: “I want to learn more about myself!” Little else. During lunch, I went to him. He put his Strengths Profile (a...
“They all fall”
I crashed. Then dragged myself to a nearby wall. And called the ambulance. Then I called my friend whom I had just left. And she too tripped on the same small step and fell. Although there was a yellow line cautioning people, from where we stood, it looked like flat...
The Priceless Rose
I once gave up my seat on public transport to an elderly man. I moved out of his way and turned in the other direction. Suddenly, I felt a tugging on my bag. I turned and saw him thanking me. He beckoned me so I turned and faced him. We...
Crossing the Impossible Road
Crossing the road in crowded parts of Bali is no small feat. Private car drivers sometimes need to help travellers like me cross the road. When they cross the road, the traffic just stops. “They won’t hit you”, my driver tells me. But that’s hard to remember when you see non-stop...
A Teacher of and for Life
It was her way of being that felt different. There was a quietness, warmth, compassion, depth and wisdom. I felt my heart activated in her class in grad school. I was joining this class from another school from campus so I didn’t know anyone. Yet I always felt safe, comfortable...
Where are your Higher Purpose Friends?
My higher purpose friends are some of the greatest jewels in my life. They are my close experience of goodness in the world; we enjoy mutual support; we keep each other on a higher, deeper path. Some have expressed to me great difficulty in drawing in such friends. "Where do...









